LADY, HOW MUCH IS IN YOUR BANK ACCOUNT?
If we check your bank balance, how much is there?
I’m talking about the money you made by yourself not what someone dashed you. How much are you capable of generating?
Before you get married as a lady, you need a job, build your business, work on your skill. Find legitimate ways to make money.
You should pay your bills, take good care of yourself and have some left for future purpose and bless lives! Let men know you are a virtuous lady looking for who to add value to not suck dry!
The reason lots of ladies are always broke despite their salary is because they live above their means!
She will collect a salary of #30, 000, squander everything before the middle of the month and go hunting for a man to pick up her mess! You can’t be earning that amount and be wearing #5, 000 shoe to work, what for? Some will earn less than #20, 000 and must wear the latest designer clothes and even carry Gucci bags! That’s why some husbands are always in debt! Some earn so much but there is nothing sensible to show for it. The wife is a waster and a squanderer who will not contribute anything to the marriage and still waste the one her husband gives her!
A virtuous woman is a money generating machine! Read Proverbs 31 for more understanding. Your virtue should be producing money my dear sister! If your character doesn’t put money in your bank account, your virtue as a woman is not complete!
A lady who is ready for marriage is not broke! Neither is she a beggar!
A woman who wants any man to take her seriously must be ready to contribute in every area to the success of the marriage including finance. Marriage is not about me…me…me! So many husbands are financially frustrated and bankrupt because they have wives who can consume but not produce!
Your financial responsibility as a single lady is not in the hands of your fiance! Stop grabbing him by the throat asking him to buy every damn thing for you including bra and pants! If he gives to you, fine. If not, take care of yourself, that is how to win a man’s respect!
I paid my bills when I was single and living alone as a spinster. I paid my rent, took care of my groceries and utilities, fixed my life and whatever my fiance gave was a bonus. I can’t remember asking my fiance for money to buy something for myself.
Whatever help he rendered was willingly from his heart not through coercion, pressure and aggressive demand. I like making my money and being a blessing to my man. That way, I have myself esteem intact and also wins his respect. If you want respect from your man and in laws in marriage, you must earn it. It is not cheap. It does not drop on your laps on a platter of gold!
Marriage is for mature adults who are ready to take responsibility and be a blessing to each other!
Many women are frustrated in marriage because the man is not taking financial responsibility. Many men are frustrated and suicidal because they are broke and the wife couldn’t help out.
In life, there is raining season and dry season. There are times your husband has so much and there are times he has little or nothing. When his finance is low, help, balance up in that area so your finance wouldn’t go into comma or die untimely death.
No woman should be 100% financially dependent on her husband. Learn to make your own money. Add value to humanity, be a blessing to others. Money is an exchange for the services you render or goods you sell to others. It will boost yourself esteem and make you feel good about yourself.
There is nothing like adding values to others and being rewarded for it. Be a blessing to others. Don’t die in the kitchen! There is a reason why you are created, find out, develop it and get rewarded for it!
As a single lady, plan to go into marriage as a blessing not a curse!
Don’t be a financial burden to men. Don’t be a financial burden to others.
Avoid being a beggar.
It’s okay to ask for help but do not make it a habit.
Stop asking for every Tom Dick and Harry to give you money, you can make your money. You don’t have to be broke before month end and start begging men to give you money.
If you are still in school, think of what you can sell or services to render to fellow students to earn additional money and relieve your struggling parents of financial stress! Think, pray and read!
If you are already working, manage your finance well. What you have is enough if well managed. Do not live above your means.
Wearing expensive clothes, shoes and bags does not mean you are rich or wealthy. Wealthy people don’nt go broke to prove what is already apparent to others.
Do not compare yourself with others.
Live your size per time.
Invest in other streams of income.
Don’t let your income stay static, think, dream big, work harder.
You can buy your own car and build your own house.
You can be beautiful, godly and rich!
You can be a blessing to your man.
You are a blessing!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
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